A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_URI::$config is deprecated

Filename: core/URI.php

Line Number: 101

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Router::$uri is deprecated

Filename: core/Router.php

Line Number: 127

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: Creation of dynamic property Web::$benchmark is deprecated

Filename: core/Controller.php

Line Number: 75

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: Creation of dynamic property Web::$hooks is deprecated

Filename: core/Controller.php

Line Number: 75

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: Creation of dynamic property Web::$config is deprecated

Filename: core/Controller.php

Line Number: 75

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: Creation of dynamic property Web::$log is deprecated

Filename: core/Controller.php

Line Number: 75

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: Creation of dynamic property Web::$utf8 is deprecated

Filename: core/Controller.php

Line Number: 75

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: Creation of dynamic property Web::$uri is deprecated

Filename: core/Controller.php

Line Number: 75

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: Creation of dynamic property Web::$exceptions is deprecated

Filename: core/Controller.php

Line Number: 75

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: Creation of dynamic property Web::$router is deprecated

Filename: core/Controller.php

Line Number: 75

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: Creation of dynamic property Web::$output is deprecated

Filename: core/Controller.php

Line Number: 75

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: Creation of dynamic property Web::$security is deprecated

Filename: core/Controller.php

Line Number: 75

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: Creation of dynamic property Web::$input is deprecated

Filename: core/Controller.php

Line Number: 75

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: Creation of dynamic property Web::$lang is deprecated

Filename: core/Controller.php

Line Number: 75

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: Creation of dynamic property Web::$load is deprecated

Filename: core/Controller.php

Line Number: 78

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: Creation of dynamic property Web::$db is deprecated

Filename: core/Loader.php

Line Number: 396

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_DB_mysqli_driver::$failover is deprecated

Filename: database/DB_driver.php

Line Number: 371

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: Return type of CI_Session_files_driver::open($save_path, $name) should either be compatible with SessionHandlerInterface::open(string $path, string $name): bool, or the #[\ReturnTypeWillChange] attribute should be used to temporarily suppress the notice

Filename: drivers/Session_files_driver.php

Line Number: 132

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: Return type of CI_Session_files_driver::close() should either be compatible with SessionHandlerInterface::close(): bool, or the #[\ReturnTypeWillChange] attribute should be used to temporarily suppress the notice

Filename: drivers/Session_files_driver.php

Line Number: 292

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: Return type of CI_Session_files_driver::read($session_id) should either be compatible with SessionHandlerInterface::read(string $id): string|false, or the #[\ReturnTypeWillChange] attribute should be used to temporarily suppress the notice

Filename: drivers/Session_files_driver.php

Line Number: 166

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: Return type of CI_Session_files_driver::write($session_id, $session_data) should either be compatible with SessionHandlerInterface::write(string $id, string $data): bool, or the #[\ReturnTypeWillChange] attribute should be used to temporarily suppress the notice

Filename: drivers/Session_files_driver.php

Line Number: 235

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: Return type of CI_Session_files_driver::destroy($session_id) should either be compatible with SessionHandlerInterface::destroy(string $id): bool, or the #[\ReturnTypeWillChange] attribute should be used to temporarily suppress the notice

Filename: drivers/Session_files_driver.php

Line Number: 315

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: Return type of CI_Session_files_driver::gc($maxlifetime) should either be compatible with SessionHandlerInterface::gc(int $max_lifetime): int|false, or the #[\ReturnTypeWillChange] attribute should be used to temporarily suppress the notice

Filename: drivers/Session_files_driver.php

Line Number: 356

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: ini_set(): Session ini settings cannot be changed after headers have already been sent

Filename: Session/Session.php

Line Number: 282

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: session_set_cookie_params(): Session cookie parameters cannot be changed after headers have already been sent

Filename: Session/Session.php

Line Number: 289

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: ini_set(): Session ini settings cannot be changed after headers have already been sent

Filename: Session/Session.php

Line Number: 304

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: ini_set(): Session ini settings cannot be changed after headers have already been sent

Filename: Session/Session.php

Line Number: 314

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: ini_set(): Session ini settings cannot be changed after headers have already been sent

Filename: Session/Session.php

Line Number: 315

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: ini_set(): Session ini settings cannot be changed after headers have already been sent

Filename: Session/Session.php

Line Number: 316

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: ini_set(): Session ini settings cannot be changed after headers have already been sent

Filename: Session/Session.php

Line Number: 317

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: ini_set(): Session ini settings cannot be changed after headers have already been sent

Filename: Session/Session.php

Line Number: 375

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: session_set_save_handler(): Session save handler cannot be changed after headers have already been sent

Filename: Session/Session.php

Line Number: 110

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: session_start(): Session cannot be started after headers have already been sent

Filename: Session/Session.php

Line Number: 143

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: Creation of dynamic property Web::$session is deprecated

Filename: core/Loader.php

Line Number: 1283

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: Creation of dynamic property Web::$asset is deprecated

Filename: core/Loader.php

Line Number: 1283

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 75
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Cannot modify header information - headers already sent by (output started at /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/system/core/Exceptions.php:271)

Filename: core/MY_Controller.php

Line Number: 77

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 77
Function: header

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Cannot modify header information - headers already sent by (output started at /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/system/core/Exceptions.php:271)

Filename: core/MY_Controller.php

Line Number: 78

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 78
Function: header

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Cannot modify header information - headers already sent by (output started at /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/system/core/Exceptions.php:271)

Filename: core/MY_Controller.php

Line Number: 79

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 79
Function: header_remove

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: Creation of dynamic property Web::$Site_model is deprecated

Filename: core/Loader.php

Line Number: 358

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 92
Function: model

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Cache::$file is deprecated

Filename: libraries/Driver.php

Line Number: 188

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 95
Function: driver

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: Creation of dynamic property Web::$cache is deprecated

Filename: core/Loader.php

Line Number: 1283

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 95
Function: driver

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: Creation of dynamic property Web::$jblade is deprecated

Filename: core/Loader.php

Line Number: 1283

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/core/MY_Controller.php
Line: 132
Function: library

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/application/controllers/Web.php
Line: 9
Function: __construct

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/index.php
Line: 315
Function: require_once

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A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: 8192

Message: htmlentities(): Passing null to parameter #1 ($string) of type string is deprecated

Filename: cache/80fac6c6fd20a0fad424ef491cf6874c4e7be11d.bladec

Line Number: 4

Backtrace:

File: /home/websitetasarim/public_html/eniyibakicim.com/themes/cache/80fac6c6fd20a0fad424ef491cf6874c4e7be11d.bladec
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Ailede Kardeşler Arası Uyum Nasıl Sağlanmalıdır?

Kardeşlik belki de bu hayatta sahip olunabilecek en değerli hazinelerden birisidir. Onların arasında oluşan uyum ileri ki yaşamlarında onlara olumlu şekilde geri dönecektir. Peki sizin canınızdan bir parça olan evlatlarınız arasında ki uyumu nasıl sağlamalısınız? Biliyorum bu soruya bir cevap arıyorsunuz. Ben de siz sevgili ebeveynlere bu soru için bir cevap vermek istiyorum.

“Kardeşlik, insanın insanla olan en güzel bağıdır.” – Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

Çocuklarınız arasında ki dengeyi kurabilmek için ikisine de eşit bir sevgiyle yaklaşabilmeniz gerekiyor. Onlara ikisinin de eşit olduğunu aralarında hiçbir fark olmadığını hissettirmelisiniz. Onlara yumuşak ve ılımlı bir dil ile sürekli sevginizi hissettirebilirsiniz. Sevilen çocuk güven dolu olur, kardeşini de sizin öğrettiğiniz biçimde sevebilir. Sizin çocuğunuza öğrettiğiniz her şey çocuğunuzun bilinçaltında yer edinir. Onu sevme biçiminiz ve davranışlarınız çocuklarınıza rol model olacaktır. Kardeşini sevme konusunda da sizin sağlıklı davranışlarınızı ve ona öğrettiğiniz sevgi biçiminizi tekrar ederek ilerleyecektir.  

Büyük olan çocuğunuza diğer çocuğunuz daha karnınızdayken kardeş sevgisini aşılayabilirsiniz. Çocuğunuza kardeşi olduktan sonra da aynı ilgi ve şefkati vereceğinizi hissettirerek, oluşabilecek kıskançlık duygusunu engelleyebilirsiniz. Çocuğunuz her ne olursa olsun zaman zaman kardeşini kıskanabilir. Bu da içsel ve olağan bir duygudur. Bu gibi durumlarda büyük olan çocuğa güzel bir dille kardeşinin sana ihtiyacı var.

“O seninle oyunlar oynamak ve seninle olmak istiyor.” Tarzında cümleler kullanarak çocuğunuzun abilik/ablalık hislerini olumlu anlamda etkileyebilirsiniz.

Her iki çocuğunuza da bireysel vakitler ayırmalısınız. Bu vakitlerde çocuğunuzla sohbet etmeli, oyunlar oynamalı, dışarı çıkmalısınız. Onunla geçirdiğiniz bireysel vakitler sayesinde çocuğunuz kendini değerli ve özel hissedecektir.

Kardeşiyle beraber oynayabileceği ortak oyunlar bulabilirsiniz. Oyunlar çocukları yakınlaştırıp, paylaşım duygularının gelişmesini sağlayan en faydalı aktivitelerden birisidir.

Çocuklarınızın eşit olduğunu onlara aldığınız oyuncaklarla ve eşyalarla da hissettirebilirsiniz. İkisine de aynı oyuncağı olarak eşitsiniz fark yok imajı oluşturabilirsiniz.  Çocuklarınızın aralarında anlaşmazlıklar illa ki yaşanacak bu kardeşliğin doğasıda olan bir şey bu gibi çatışmalar yaşandığında çocuklarınızı sakinleştirdikten sonra onları dinlemenizi öneririm. Çoğu zaman tek istedikleri görülmek ve anlaşılmak olabiliyor. Çatışma sonrası onların ikisini de yan yana alıp sakince hatalarını söyleyebilirsiniz.

Çocuklarınız sizin için değerli olduğu kadar sizler de onlar için çok değerlisiniz. Onların arasında ki uyumu sevginizle, onlara yarattığınız bireysel alanlarla sağlıklı bir iletişimle sağlayabilirsiniz.

Çocuklarınızla birlikte size sağlıklı günler diliyorum…

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